There’s practically no one who doesn’t argue to win and prove they’re right – but the rules change when the person you’re having the disagreement with is your lover. Before you throw in the towel and decide just to rely on Asian Girls Perth for company because you don’t want to argue with a lover, though, keep reading.
You know that any argument leads to a winner and a loser – but arguing with a lover will end with either two winners or two losers. The key to having a good relationship even if you do argue isn’t not to have a relationship, nor to not disagree – ever – but simply not to fight to win when you do disagree. Instead, you need to fight fair, while aiming to resolve the disagreements in a way that you both win in the end.
Here’s a quick guide to help you succeed in that.
1. Don’t raise your voice. That tactic may work in a debate, but the most it will do when you argue with a lover is infuriate her and make Asian Girls Perth start shouting, too. Do your best to speak calmly and keep your tone even, and she’ll do the same.
2. Don’t bring up other issues. Fighting fair in love means not bring up touchy subjects, whether they’re related to your current conflict or not. Don’t mention past issues, either. Are you upset that Sydney High Class Escorts always forgets when it’s her turn to pick up groceries for the week, for example? Stick to that and don’t suddenly relate it to her tendency to go off on her own instead of staying with you when you go to parties.
3. Remember your manners. Gloating when your partner apologises, or outright saying “I told you so,” will just make Asian Girls Perth less willing to give in the next time you argue. It takes two to argue, so don’t forget to apologise – even if you did nothing wrong.
Most of all, even if you don’t come to a clear conclusion, find a way to reconcile with your Sydney High Class Escorts, even if you have to lock yourself in your room for a while to cool off enough so you won’t have a shouting match.
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